How do you show your love to your kids?

Do you say or do you show your love for your children? Is it helpful if you just keep the love without saying? Or it is healthier if you say but you don’t show your affection to your kids?

Different parents have unique approach in raising their children. They have different styles in expressing their emotions to their family. Some are too wordy yet you can never see them at work. Some are performer to such point that you can’t hear any   words at all. Can we call it a silence of love?

They said that action speaks louder than words. Does it mean that showing your love to your children are much preferred than saying it? Well, love is an emotion that requires action to do in order for you to express your feelings. However, to express ideas as you communicate can be done both verbal and non verbal.  Therefore, when you act something to show your affection, it should be followed with words to affirm the message of action if it has been understand fully and correct.

When you bring something for your kids or when you do things for them, make sure that you have to affirm the message of what you do for them to fully know your intention of doing it. For example if a child would say: “because my mom and dad love me, they even went home for me to celebrate this occasion together even they are both working abroad. Because of this phrase, it concretely shows that a child recognize the meaning of the actions expressed by his parents.

It is important to show your love to your children both actions and words. Do not be afraid to say things naturally because it is essential and healthier. Your parent-child relationship will even grow better and better.